5 Clues Your Partner Is Faking It in Bed

The majority of people think that being intimate with their partners is something fun, special, and a time to get in tune with each other. However, it seems that there are many couples who don’t focus on the activity as a whole but only on the end result. They want their partners to have fun and to be “done” after the activity ends.

According to several dating and relationship experts, reaching the point of climax is something that doesn’t happen every single time, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

But if you are one of those people who wants to make sure that their companions have a good time and don’t fake it, there are some clues that can help you out.

We talked to Denise Knowles, counselor and intimacy therapist, and she told us about a few ways to discover if our partners actually enjoy their time or not. Without further ado, here are 5 clues your partner is faking it in bed.

1. They leave immediately after

If you and your partner lie in bed afterwards and have a little chat while cuddling, that can be an indicator that they had fun and they liked what happened.

However, if you notice that your partner rushes immediately after the whole thing ends and they are not in the mood to talk to you, it might be a clear sign that they didn’t like it or that they faked it.

2. They make angry or bored faces

Denise Knowles says that people tend to make all sorts of facial expressions during this intimate time and some even look like they are actually in pain. If you know your partner well enough, you know the meaning behind all the faces.

On the other hand, if you look at your partner and see that they have a weird look on their face, just right after you’ve heard or seen them “having the time of their lives”, it might be a sign that they weren’t honest.

3. They don’t get physical

Don’t get us wrong, this is already a very physical activity, but we are actually talking about extra kissing, touching, and flirting during those special moments. If they pull you closer to them and do all the things previously mentioned, it’s a clear sign that they like it.

But if they act like some sort of dead fish and suddenly behave as if they’ve just seen some shooting stars, it might give off the impression that their reaction is actually fake.

4. They over compliment you

There is nothing wrong with complimenting your significant other when you like something and want more of it in the future. This way, you send them clues that you are fully fulfilled with the activity and they will be happy.

Per contra, if they can’t stop complimenting you, they might give off the impression that they exaggerate. There is a possibility that they are actually honest, but if you feel like they insist too much on trying to thank you for those moments, they might be liying.

5. You just feel it

This is the time when your gut is telling you more than you actually know or realize! For instance, when you feel like something is not ok, but you don’t know for sure, it might be your intuition guiding you.

The same rule applies when it comes to intimacy as well. If you think that your partner was only faking it, but you don’t have any arguments for that, you might be right.

If you have the impression that something is not right, pay attention to the signs and soon enough you will know if you’re right or wrong.

However, instead of trying to guess what’s on your significant other’s mind, you can always ask them about it and find a way to make things run smoother the next time!

…If you want to know more about bedroom time and other hot topics, make sure to check out some other articles on our website! But if you want to read something else before you head out, we recommend this one: 6 Shocking Celebs Who Suffered From Intimacy Addiction!