We don’t know about you, but we believe that grandparents are special to humankind. They are like superheroes who make sure that their grandchildren are not upset, who give them treats, money, and candy, and who take them to the park to play among other things. They can be seen as the other, more fun parents.
It is a no-brainer that each and every grandparent that exists wants all the best in the world for their grandchildren. The sad thing is that sometimes, they have no idea how to express their feelings, possibly because of the generation difference.
We have talked to several grandmothers and grandfathers around the States, in order to find out what things they have shared with their grandchildren. And because we know that you are curious to find out, we are going to share this information with you!
If you are a grandparent and have no idea how to tell your favorite kids what you think, this one is for you!
However, if you are someone who has no clue what your grandparents are talking about when they are trying to give you advice, you MUST keep reading, because this is the place where you are going to find out!
- There is a special person out there for everyone!
- You should always have money of your own, regardless of how wealthy your parents or your partner might be! If you want to be financially independent, you should put in the work and get some income!
- Always be respectful and loving! With everyone, regardless of their skin color, gender, or occupation!
- Don’t do all the house chores by yourself all the time! These should be divided between partners because you are a team. Every once in a while let your partner do the dishes, make the coffee, or do the laundry.
- Never lose hope, regardless of how hard it might be to accomplish something!
- Choose a career that you are passionate about. If you do so, you will love your job, and not have to drag yourself to work each day.
- Love and respect everyone around you, but never forget to give yourself grace! You should treat yourself just like you do other people.
- Everything happens for a reason. Don’t be sad that something didn’t turn out the way you wanted it because you have no idea what good things will come to you later on.
- Talk to people, don’t rely on texting too often! Although we live in an extremely busy world, where people keep saying that they don’t have time, texting or emailing are the simplest forms of communication! But if you want to have a meaningful conversation with someone, it’s better to talk to them face to face and be present.
- Don’t be scared to tell the truth!
- You should always have a good work ethic!
- Always try to do your best, regardless of what you are trying to do!
- Be good and smart!
- Love is one of the most important things that can ever exist!
- Don’t stay in a marriage if you are not happy!
- “Don’t fall in love in a bar”, says a grandmother from Jeffersonville, New York. She explained that if you find your partner in a bar, they might go to the bar often.
- Find someone who will do almost anything for you! You need someone who is all in!
- Be open to trying new things and never hold yourself back!
- “You’re only as old as you feel!”, says one grandmother from Wisconsin.
- You should never be afraid to say exactly how you are feeling!
- Be creative and believe that you can do everything you set your mind to!
- Everyone has a story of their own, you just have to learn to listen!
- Don’t be too hard on yourself!
- Gratitude is the key if you want to live a happy and long life!
- Everything you do has an effect, whether it is positive or negative.
- If you don’t pass on your values, morals, and beliefs to your children, somebody else might do it in your place.
- As long as you live, you should keep learning, whether it’s from school, teachers, books, courses, or people’s stories and experiences!
- Never do something that you don’t want to do!
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There you have it: 28 things grandparents want their grandkids to know! What do you think about these? Do you agree with them, do you find these 28 things useful or not?
We are curious to find out your thoughts, so make sure you tell us by leaving a comment down below!