7. Make the date feel like a job interview
In other words, don’t subject your partner to an endless series of too personal questions, you don’t have to sound way too curious (even if you probably are), because it’s possible that this will make him feel uncomfortable.
Many people, when faced with such an approach in most social interaction, end up talking even less than they actually would. No one wants to feel questioned.
Don’t insist on topics like work, family, future, unless you see that your partner wants to talk about them. Give your partner the freedom to choose what to disclose and what not to.
However, if things go well, you will always have to find out everything you want to know.
