…Do you think that it’s absolutely mandatory to have the most beautiful physique that can exist in order to receive the love that you want and need? 

We believe that there is no such thing as a perfect look = perfect intimate relationship!

When it comes to the bedroom life, every couple out there is free to do whatever they feel like doing. There are many cases where people overthink the situation and put too much pressure on their personal life. Unfortunately, all these things lead to decreased confidence and a lack of intimacy.

Oftentimes, women are the ones who tend to overthink the whole situation. There are many reasons why they do that, and according to some studies, one of the things that makes them feel low is the thought that they should have the perfect appearance.

Nothing further from the truth, because we continued with our research and asked men what they thought the most common mistakes most women make in their bedroom life are.

And no, women don’t need to look like one of Victoria’s Secret’s supermodels and they also don’t have to act like one of the characters in you know what type of movies! If you want to find out what men actually think that women might do wrong, here they are!

However, don’t be so quick in thinking that your relationship will go down in flames! Once you know what the mistakes are, you can work towards improvement!

1. The initiation that is far too subtle

Usually, when it comes to intimacy, women believe men should be able to read their minds. As a result, they can become a little impatient if their subtle suggestions go unnoticed.

Slight glances, such as “I’m going upstairs,” or cuddling on the couch while watching TV don’t scream “Take me into the bedroom!” to the male brain. That happens especially if they are normally the primary initiator and there has been a lot of resistance.

Want a quick fix?

Women should know that men are just like them sometimes: they all want to feel and be attractive to their partners. They should tell them in a nice manner that they want something from them.

Also, women shouldn’t be afraid to speak their minds! And if they want a solution that works even faster, the best thing is to go ahead and kiss their men! Trust us! They’ll take the hint!

2. Failing to give women what they want

Let’s be honest here because all of us forget a few things from time to time. Women tend to believe that if they told their partners what they like, they will remember everything 100%.

Unfortunately, that is not the case and females need to understand that sometimes you have to keep telling men what they want until there will no longer be any second-guessing.

Even though it might be annoying to keep repeating the same thing over and over again, in the end, they will remember! Trust us!

…Click “Next” to continue reading about all the intimate things men would love to know about women!

3. Focusing on their flaws too much 

The pleasure of being present is one of the benefits of masculine compartmentalization. Men generally feel content by the prospect of being with a real, living woman, staying together, and doing whatever they feel like it.

Women, on the other hand, are frequently living in their heads, thinking that their bodies are not looking the way they want to. Besides making everyone feel a bit uncomfortable, self-criticism reduces the desire to continue with the activity.

…In conclusion, why do women bother thinking obsessively about all their flaws when men don’t even notice them? It’s better for everyone to just let go of all of these annoying thoughts!

4. They are scared that they won’t do things right 

Nobody was born knowing everything, so why worry so much about what is right and what isn’t? Women can tell their partners what they want and even ask for a demonstration from them. We are sure that they will be more than happy to teach them their technique.

Even though it might feel a bit weird to ask for something like this, a long-term relationship involves sincerity, honesty, comfort, and being raw, right? So it means that it shouldn’t feel inappropriate, but entertaining, and a little…Caliente!

Besides that, it might actually put both of you in a good mood for some sort of physical activity!

…Click on the next page to discover another thing that men would love women to know!

5. Not saying what they want

Just like we have previously said, nobody can read anybody’s mind, so there is no need to get upset when someone doesn’t do what you wanted. According to several men, women are expecting their partners to do what they would want or like, but without telling them straight away.

When it comes to intimacy, everyone should feel safe, protected, and respected, so you shouldn’t be scared to speak up your mind and to tell them exactly what you want. Men really appreciate when women tell them what they are expecting from them, regardless of how frisky a request might be.

6. Pretend they don’t care

In conformity with several males, women believe that men are insensitive and they don’t care about their feelings. Men say that this is nothing further from the truth because they are actually just as sensitive.

Because of the fact that women see men as careless creatures, they tend to act like they don’t care. In the end, the only thing that ends up happening is the sadness and angriness of both of the partners.

…Do you think that women are more passionate when it comes to bedroom life rather than men are? Make sure to let us know by leaving a comment in the section down below!

7. Faking

This one is the cherry on top, according to men! Of course, they would want to make women as happy as they can when it comes to their bedroom life, but if they are not enjoying the time as much as males do, females should speak up.

There is no need to fake something that didn’t happen because men will just get false confidence if women do so. Honesty is one of the most important things when it comes to intimacy or relationships in general!

…Do you agree with this one or do you think that sometimes faking is the way to go? 

TAKEAWAY 

What do you think about all these 7 things men say women are doing wrong in their bedroom life? Do you agree with all these 7 things men wish women knew about intimacy?

We are curious to know what your thoughts are, so make sure to let us know about them by leaving them in the comments section down below!

If you have any tips that you believe might help women out, feel free to share them with us!

If you liked reading this article, we have plenty more just like it!

…Make sure to check out this one as well: 10 Things People Are Too Afraid to Ask Their Partners!