1. Your mistakes make them feel good
You may not see it at first, but if you pay attention, everything will start to make sense. These people won’t say it out loud, but when you mess up something, they will have a reaction that will suggest jealousy. It can even be a small, almost unnoticeable smile, an “I told you so”, or “I wouldn’t have done that, I would’ve…”.
With you having something you’re not that proud of, they will feel better about themselves. Maybe they will try to cheer you on, but it will be just a cover up.
2. They make fun of you, but only “as a joke”
This is particularly happening when there is a group involved. They tend to make comments that they won’t usually make about you. Or, and this is a real issue – they say something that they know it is an insecurity of yours: it can be your height, job, home, physical appearance, even your belongings, it doesn’t matter, actually.
If you respond to these comments, you will be perceived as defensive. On the other hand, if you laugh, they will have continue with these type of jokes.
Either way, there is no best answer or reaction you can have.
3. They are not interested when you’re succeeding
I know it is hard to accept, but these are real facts you need to know. Also, think about it this way: if you see these signs, it’s clear that you don’t need these type of people in our life. So it’s better to stay calm and think about how better you will feel once this negativity is out of your life.
Pay attention to people’s reaction when you tell them that you did something you’re really proud of. If they are truly happy for you, you’ll see it and also feel it.
If they have a reaction that makes you feel a little insecure, then you know they are secretly jealous of you. They may say they are happy for you, but if it doesn’t show in the tone of voice or in the facial expressions they make, I’m sorry to tell you, but it is not okay.
