16. Treat each first date with an open mind.
When you’ve had your share of bad dates, it’s easy to assume that all your dates will be the same, explains Hershenson. But falling into a negative thought pattern will only make it harder to connect with other people.
Instead, Hershenson recommends going to each date with an open mind.
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17. Forget about playing games.
Playing games might have been fun when you were 20 looking to have some fun, but as you become more mature you understand that it’s a bad strategy. Also, forget about playing hard to get.
If you like someone, go for it.
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18. Be a good listener.
This applies basically at any age, but especially when you’re in your 40s looking for a serious relationship.
As relationship coach, Linda F. Williams has explained, by listening closely you’ll find everything you need to know about that person, especially when they share with you their past experiences or even relationships.
When the other person is talking, don’t focus on what to respond, but rather on understanding what the other person is saying. Being a good listener will help you understand better the person standing in front of you.
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