8.Your in-laws are very critical.
As a parent, you want what’s best for your children, and that also applies when it comes to their relationships. However, making mistakes is a natural part of life that helps you grow and evolve, and it’s certainly better than having your parents deciding for you.
As a newly married couple, it’s not very easy to adjust to the new life, so having someone constantly watching and judging you can make it even more difficult. It’s even more challenging if your in-laws feel like you’re not enough for their child and you don’t fit their expectations. If your in-laws make you feel like nothing you do is OK, they’re toxic and you definitely shouldn’t accept that type of behavior.
They will always find something means to say about you. For instance, if you’re working too much, you don’t care about your spouse, if you stay at home, you’re lazy. They judge you for not wanting to have a baby right away and criticize your decision. But when you finally become a parent, they criticize your parenting skills and have an opinion on how you should raise your child.
