11. You have different family goals
Having different goals when it comes to starting a family is a huge deal-breaker for a lot of people, and it’s something almost impossible to overcome. In this situation, compromise will unlikely be the solution, since is such a sensitive and important topic.
According to Sophy Singer, a matchmaker at Tawkify, if you cannot wait to get married, start a family, and have children, but your partner doesn’t want this to happen right away, or maybe never, it’s a mistake to think that you can change your beliefs, or ask them to change theirs because they probably never will.
Conversely, if you’ve never seen yourself as parent material, but your partner loves children very much, it’s just not fair to change your beliefs just because you want to be with them because in the end, you’ll be unhappy and you’ll probably blame them for trying to change your mind.
Read also: 10 Telltale Signs Your Partner Sees You As a Fling.
