6. They blame you for everything
They distort everything you say so that you appear the villain and have to make amends for it or get blamed for things you never said.
Their strategy is to “project responsibility or fault onto their partner. They will deceptively twist reality, distort the truth or outright lie to make the case that their partner is to blame,” says Carol A. Lambert, psychotherapist and author of Women With Controlling Partners.
It doesn’t even matter what the discussion is all about. If it ends with the emotionally abused partner giving into what the abusive partner wants, then their mission is complete.
Related: If Your Partner Is Asking You to Do These 10 Things, He’s Not The One.
The only demands involved in the next one should be no demands…..
