1. Chivalry Still Has a Place
When it comes to romance, many women would rather choose a man who takes on a traditionally masculine role. According to psychologist Diana Kirschner, Ph.D., and author of several books about love, this is especially true in the early stages of a relationship.
They are fully capable of opening a door for themselves or pulling out their own chair, but if you notice them hesitating, they may be waiting for you to take action and be the gentleman. But remember that this is something you should always do, and not just at the beginning of the relationship.
2. Nodding Is Not Enough
Listening is very important, but women also need something that tends to be more vital for them: they want to know that they are being heard. Nodding along isn’t enough. According to love guru Kirschner, when she pauses, chances are she’s giving you a signal to respond in a caring, compassionate way.
If they tell you that they had an awful day at work, they want to hear you say, “I’m sorry that today wasn’t exactly what you’d hoped for.” And don’t forget to resist the urge to offer solutions.
3. Say It, Again and Again
Secret No. 3: Women enjoy being told they look great, and they like a man who notices without extra help. When they’re wearing a nice new dress, for instance, they’ll give you major points for saying how amazing they look, especially if you mention the outfit before they do.
If they have a new haircut, if they are looking more fit or particularly attractive, let them know about it.
