We have to admit that as beautiful as love is, sometimes it can feel like a chore as well. It’s an actual challenge to find a great person who has common interests with you and who is willing to spend their whole life being by your side.

When you are at the beginning of a new relationship, you might get so enthusiastic, that you feel like you have millions of butterflies in your body. Even though these feelings are great, sometimes they can do more harm than good, and that is because you might be missing out on some important warning signs.

If you’ve observed any of these following red flags, you should be careful, because you might be with the wrong person:

1. You have different life perspectives 

You don’t need to have every single thing in common with your partner in order for your relationship to function, but it is normal and healthy to have mutual interests and even friendships.

However, when it comes to bigger goals in life, such as family or moving to another state, if you and your partner are complete opposites, this is 100% a red flag that the two of you are not meant for each other. Of course, things can change, and you can both try and convince one another to do something, but keep in mind that this shouldn’t be a forced process.

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2. You want your partner to drastically change 

Even though it’s true that people who are in a serious relationship tend to change their behavior and adopt some of their partners’ habits, if you are asking your loved one to change completely in order for you to be content, it is not good.

It is true that people make some changes to themselves from time to time, but doing it because their partners are telling them to is quite rare. On the other hand, there are cases where these people agree with the changes required and they are willing to make them. However, it is a mistake to wait for your partner to do something because this is your desire.

This goes the other way as well! You can’t expect to act completely different even if this is what your partner is asking you to do!

3. Your partner is not ok with the way you look 

This one is pure body shaming and you really don’t need someone like this in your life! In conformity with a study, approximately one-fourth of the males that participated in this survey said that they wish their partners would go under the knife for a few cosmetic treatments. At the top of the list of the most desired surgeries was liposuction, which was followed by breast augmentation.

There is nothing wrong with getting plastic surgery or any other type of work done, as long as you are the one who makes these decisions. These are not inexpensive quick fixes, they are things that will last a lifetime.

Long story short, we have to admit that physical attraction plays an important role when it comes to any romantic relationship. In addition to that, it should come naturally, not forced. If you noticed that your partner is not pleased with the way you look, you might need to consider telling them “thank u, next”.

4. Your friends and family don’t like them 

Don’t take it the wrong way, we are not suggesting that you should 100% follow what your friends and family might be telling you! What we are saying is that sometimes, when you are crazy in love, you might not be able to see the flaws of your partner, but those around you don’t have the same problem.

If you noticed that your loved ones have a weird attitude about your partner, you should have a talk with them and find out where the issue is coming from. They might be right, or they might be wrong, but they surely want what is best for you, so it won’t hurt to give it a try!

5. They have an abusive behavior

Whether we are talking about verbal, emotional, or physical abuse, this is the BIGGEST red flag in any type of relationship! If you are involved in a situation like this, you shouldn’t even think twice before you decide to end the relationship and move on.

It doesn’t matter how much you love them or how nice they are to you sometimes! You shouldn’t be mistreated!

TAKEAWAY 

What do you think about these 5 warning signs that you should break up immediately? Have you ever experienced any of these? If yes, what did you do? We are curious to know more about your experiences, so make sure to let us know about them by leaving a comment in the section down below!

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