1. You have different life perspectives
You don’t need to have every single thing in common with your partner in order for your relationship to function, but it is normal and healthy to have mutual interests and even friendships.
However, when it comes to bigger goals in life, such as family or moving to another state, if you and your partner are complete opposites, this is 100% a red flag that the two of you are not meant for each other. Of course, things can change, and you can both try and convince one another to do something, but keep in mind that this shouldn’t be a forced process.
Do you agree with this one?
2. You want your partner to drastically change
Even though it’s true that people who are in a serious relationship tend to change their behavior and adopt some of their partners’ habits, if you are asking your loved one to change completely in order for you to be content, it is not good.
It is true that people make some changes to themselves from time to time, but doing it because their partners are telling them to is quite rare. On the other hand, there are cases where these people agree with the changes required and they are willing to make them. However, it is a mistake to wait for your partner to do something because this is your desire.
This goes the other way as well! You can’t expect to act completely different even if this is what your partner is asking you to do!
3. Your partner is not ok with the way you look
This one is pure body shaming and you really don’t need someone like this in your life! In conformity with a study, approximately one-fourth of the males that participated in this survey said that they wish their partners would go under the knife for a few cosmetic treatments. At the top of the list of the most desired surgeries was liposuction, which was followed by breast augmentation.
There is nothing wrong with getting plastic surgery or any other type of work done, as long as you are the one who makes these decisions. These are not inexpensive quick fixes, they are things that will last a lifetime.
Long story short, we have to admit that physical attraction plays an important role when it comes to any romantic relationship. In addition to that, it should come naturally, not forced. If you noticed that your partner is not pleased with the way you look, you might need to consider telling them “thank u, next”.
