7 Popular Relationship Advice You Shouldn’t Follow

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4. Compromise is key 

This might work when it comes to political parties or national issues, but not for couples. Marriage educator Patty Newbold says that excessive compromise is like accepting to be disappointed, but only as long as your partner feels the same way.

Instead of doing so, the partners should look for an alternative that will make both of them happy and content. In addition to that, you might be surprised by how many new things you are going to learn about each other!

5. The number of people you’ve slept with is a secret 

This one is really important! We live in a world where we are free to do almost everything we feel like doing. Having fun with someone and being intimate with several people are a few of them.

There are many people who feel ashamed to admit the number of people they have been intimate with. That is because they are afraid their new partners are going to judge them, or even break up with them.

In a situation like this, it’s always best to be sincere and to tell the truth! There is no shame in telling your partner how many people you’ve slept with because everyone is free to experiment.

Every relationship should be based on trust and respect. If your new partner doesn’t give them to you, why bother?

6. Trust your friends

We all know that it’s fun and easy to ask for our friends’ opinions and advice when we are having trouble dating or being in a relationship. But it’s not always good to do so.

That is because there are situations when your friends wouldn’t like a partner like yours for themselves, which will make them subjective. Instead of trusting them without any doubt, it’s better to analyze the whole situation, understand their point of view, and work from there.

7. The guy should pay

This one is a piece of out-of-date dating advice that can be replaced with a simple solution, according to dating and lifestyle expert Anna Wood. The person who initiated the date should be the one who picks up the tab.

The other person can offer to pay or to split. It’s a nice, respectful, and thoughtful gesture that means a lot!

TAKEAWAY 

What do you think about these dating tips? Have you ever followed any of them? Do you agree or disagree with them? Don’t forget to share your thoughts with us by leaving a comment down below!

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