1. Things you hate about their family
Your partner has their own family, and whether they’re chill or very noisy, you can’t exchange them. Of course, you can tell your partner that you feel like their siblings aren’t very friendly to you. They will surely understand and try to make things better for both parties the next time you get together.
But if you suddenly start complaining about how much you don’t like them, you won’t be helpful to your significant other and you’ll actually put them in an uncomfortable position. Their family is going to be there whether you like it or not, so you should find a way to set some boundaries and somehow get along.
If you complain to your partner and say how much you wish their relatives would be totally different, that will only cause potential harm to your romance story.
2. Your ex
While it’s perfectly fine to have honest conversations about past relationships and the things you’ve learned from those experiences, it’s not the smartest idea to talk about ex-lovers over and over again. And also, you shouldn’t bring up intimate details, because it might trigger insecurities in your current relationship.
But if you both feel comfortable enough with each other and you believe that it won’t cause any harm to your relationship, you can totally share more details about each other’s past experiences. But you have to be sure that you’re both okay with that; otherwise, you might project those insecurities onto one another.
3. Intimate details
Everyone is different, so if you both like talking about things you did with different people in the past, then go for it. But for the majority of couples, bringing up intimate details can feel painful and annoying.
That’s because knowing personal details like these would make people compare themselves with those you’ve talked about. And we all know that when there are plenty of insecurities, things can get bad pretty fast.
