10 Things People Are Too Afraid to Ask Their Partners

• try a different location – this one is a must for spicing up your relationship! It is boring to only be intimate in your bedroom or on the living room couch. Try something new, such as a hotel, in the woods, in the back seat of your car, even on the kitchen table. Think outside of the box with this one and have fun! If you are feeling dangerous, you can go to a public place, such as a park when there are no people. However, you can never know when somebody will walk by. Knowing that you can get caught at any time can make it more enjoyable and passionate.
• random grabs – this one is an element of surprise because your partner will not expect you to come around them and grab their special places. This can turn into an impromptu intimate session, that will give you a guess about your partner’s desires.
• add toys – it doesn’t matter what toys you are thinking about, they can be a really great add-on, in order to have a special night or day. These toys can help both of you have a more enjoyable time together, so don’t be afraid to ask for them or to use them!
• warm-up – there are people who might need more warm-up in order to be ready for “‘things” to happen, while there are others that are willing to skip it and get straight to the intense part. However, if you are one of the people that need an increased amount of warm-up to be sure they are ready, or you simply like it very much, you should not be afraid to tell your partner so. The more “warmed up” you are, the more the activity that follows will mean for both of you.
• cuddling and kisses after – there are many people, regardless of age or gender, who like to kiss and cuddle after their intimate activity finishes. And let’s be honest, it would be a little weird to go to separate corners after it’s done. If you feel like your partner doesn’t give you the affection you crave after it’s over, make sure you tell them without being scared. Everybody has their own needs, so you don’t have to be afraid you are going to be judged!

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