1. Ask about their day
This one is really simple, but many people tend to underestimate it. Ask your significant other how their day went, how they feel, and how that project they’ve been working on for quite a while is going. It’s easy to get so caught up in your own problems and routine, that you might forget to check in with your partner.
By asking these simple questions you’ll show them that you are really interested in what’s happening in their lives outside of the relationship and they will feel closer to you.
2. Make time for them
Trust us, we know that life happens and sometimes it’s easier to cancel your plans with your partner because you know they’ll understand. Even though this is true, it might lead to serious problems over time, because you’ll constantly give off the impression that they’re not a priority for you.
A healthy relationship means that you and your significant other make time for each other so that you can talk, connect, and make plans. Trust us, it will do wonders for both of you!
3. Be their biggest cheerleader
Whether your spouse is stressed or simply excited about something they want to do, your job is to motivate and encourage them to reach their goals. Listen to what they have to say and help them when they ask you. By doing this you’ll show them that you support their dreams and that you care about their happiness and success.
4. Be an active listener
Maybe you already know this or maybe not, but there’s an actual difference between hearing something and actually listening to what you hear. When someone is in the same room with you and they talk, your ears automatically perceive the sound, but it doesn’t mean that you know what they said.
On the other hand, when you truly listen to somebody, you’re actually making a conscious effort to understand what they tell you. This means that you are engaged in the conversation, you pay attention, and you give back an answer.
A good partner will pay attention to what the other one is saying. This is actually a simple way of showing that you care, you’re present, and you only want what’s best for them.
