1. They share your secrets
When two people are together and they have a strong connection, they will surely start sharing information they won’t usually tell someone else. But in order for something like this to happen, they have to build trust and get really comfortable with each other.
If you told your partner something that was supposed to be confidential and they happen to tell somebody else, that’s your first red flag. Of course, mistakes can always happen, but if they did it multiple times, it’s clear that they are not right for you.
2. They treat other people badly
This one is really important because you can’t judge someone just by the way they treat you. Pay attention to the way your partner treats other people, such as staff at restaurants, people in the subway, or strangers passing by on the streets. They might put on a show and be on their best behavior when they’re around you, but you have to see them in different situations so that you can really see their true colors.
If they are mean or disrespectful to other people, you should know that it won’t take them a lot of time until they treat you the same way. You can either talk to them about their behavior and find a solution or you can let the relationship go and find someone more suitable for you.
3. You don’t feel comfortable around them
You can’t be very comfortable with someone straight from the moment you meet them, but if you decide to start a relationship with them, it means that you care about them and that you are willing to make an effort to get to know each other and be a team.
But if you’re already together for quite some time and there’s something in your gut that tells you something is off, maybe you shouldn’t neglect it. Are you scared to tell them something? Do you believe that if they see you doing a certain thing, they will completely change the way they think about you?
If your answer to these questions is yes then it’s a clear sign that there’s a red flag there. Pay attention to your behavior as well, because there might be something that won’t allow you to open up and be your real self. But if you feel that the vibe is coming from them, you should do something about it.
