6.Try not to get into that fight mode.
It’s normal to get very emotional during the divorce process, however, you need to make sure you’re not getting into that fight mode. Reverend Ronnie Roll, an ordained interfaith minister, certified conflict resolution specialist, and founder of Hearts Unlimited recommends avoiding this impulse at all costs.
Just because you decided to call it quits doesn’t mean you should treat each other as enemies now. According to Reverend Roll, people should try to avoid seeing divorces as box arenas where they need to win no matter what. You need to be thankful for those beautiful moments that you’ve spent together and still learn to respect each other even when it’s over.
Always remember that you decided to marry this person because you loved them very much and wanted to spend your life with them. Just because it doesn’t work out as planned doesn’t mean they’re your enemy. Do not let ego or fear destroy a beautiful bond.
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