1. You’ve changed a lot
Everything can be improved: from items, and people, to even relationships. There’s nothing wrong with pushing your partner toward a change that both of you will benefit from, but asking someone to completely change their attitude and personality is not okay.
When you are in love with someone, you accept them as they are, with all their flaws and qualities. Waiting around for someone to change their habits, interests, and hobbies won’t make you happier.
If you were more joyful when you were single than you are with your actual partner this is a clear warning sign you should take into consideration.
2. You don’t feel flutters when you think about your partner
Of course, as your relationship becomes more and more serious, you might get over the “honeymoon phase”, which means that the initial emotion and feelings fade.
But that doesn’t mean that you don’t love your partner anymore or that the spark between you two is no longer there. However, if thinking about your partner doesn’t put a smile on your face or make you happy, but it’s actually giving you anxiety and it’s making you angry or upset, it might be the right time to let them go.
3. You both avoid spending time together
If you and your partner always come up with excuses to not spend time together, but you’re willing to get along with other people, it’s a sign that you don’t belong together.
We shouldn’t take time for granted, because it’s not something we endlessly receive. If you want to spend time with someone you truly care about, you can make it. There’s no other way around it.
