8. You barely talk
This might come as a surprise to you, because many times, people don’t correlate talking with attractiveness. But in reality, when someone finds somebody else attractive, they want to spend a lot of time together. And we all know that you can’t stay with someone for several hours and not say a word.
On the other hand, when one of the partners doesn’t find their spouse attractive anymore, it will manifest as a lack of interest. This includes less talking. If you don’t care enough for someone, you don’t want their company and you only think of how you can get away from their lives slowly, but surely.
When we say that you really talk, it’s not about the “good morning” or the “good night” that you say every day. We are referring to serious conversations when you need their full attention.
If you want a quick fix for this, you can ask your spouse about how their day was, while keeping eye contact. Listen carefully and ask questions that will lead to further conversation.
3 thoughts on “8 Signs Your Spouse Doesn’t Find You Attractive Anymore”
Yes, she spent several months mad at everything and said she didn’t like me anymore. I let time pass and now she is acting differently. Maybe not great at communication, but more loving and some communicating.
Hi Merle, does this come from one of three things, lack of true communication when you say hurtful things .Does it have to do with lack of sleep and nutritional deficiency. Or lack of emotional connection?
Since my first husband had many extramarital encounters ( he was in a rock band), and after my second husband of 21 yeats died, I’ve dated and i always see everything you describe. It’s related to the fear from the first one, but I always see it, and am ready to bail. My self-doubt and fear is what makes them pull away. I think you have all of them right, though.