…Are you looking for a new partner?

It’s not very pleasant being single all the time, but it’s definitely not good to be in a toxic relationship either. However, it’s not very hard to get involved in a new relationship and start believing that person is going to be the one. Those charming words, dates, and small and cute gifts might make people fall in love, be sooner or later, the problems will show up.

When there are a lot of red flags, and the relationship does more harm than good, it’s better to think about it and decide if it’s worth saving or if both of the partners will be better off with someone else.

There are a few things that you need to take into consideration before you start dating again, no matter if you’re looking for a man or for a woman. So if this is something that you want to know more about, click on the next page because there are 6 types of people you should NEVER date.

1. The self-obsessed one

Don’t confuse self-obsession with confidence because these are two different things. A person who only cares about themselves will try to make everything possible to achieve what they want, regardless of how others feel. When they tell you about their problems, for instance, you listen to them, and you try to give them good advice if they ask you to.

However, it’s not the same thing when you tell them about all of your issues. They might come up with an excuse, vanish, or simply do things that show you they don’t care.

2. The one who suffers from their ex

There are many people who didn’t completely heal from their past experiences when they got together with their new partners. Some of them were actually helped to move on and to be happy in their new relationships, while others realized that it’s not good for them.

When you’re in love with someone who still suffers from their ex, for instance, you’ll always fear that they compare you to their previous partner or that they expect to do certain things, but the reality is that no two relationships are the same.

3. The one who doesn’t try

We know. The title sounds confusing. But we’re actually referring to those people who create a whole list of dreams and ideas they want to achieve but don’t do anything to actually make them come true.

People who are together should help each other grow, learn more, do more, and develop in several ways. And you know you can’t do any of these until you’re capable of managing and figuring out your own life.

This type of attitude only shows disinterest and laziness, and it can’t be good.

4. The one who is not around 

This is one of the most annoying things that happens in a relationship: when your partner is not around, and you have to wait hours and hours for a text or a call. The only time they try to get in touch with you is when they’re bored and want to see you.

Of course, there might be a possibility that they can’t reply because they’re very busy at work or because they didn’t have their phone around, but if they don’t do any of these and they simply don’t bother checking on you, it’s a warning sign.

5. The one who always has excuses 

Everyone makes mistakes, and it’s absolutely normal and understandable. But what’s disappointing and triggering is when your significant other always blames you for the misunderstandings in your couple’s life, doesn’t show up even though they promised to, and doesn’t apologize when they did something wrong. It’s best to stay away from people like this because the relationship might be toxic!

6. The one who is unclear 

Of course, there might be a few unclear moments at the beginning of the relationship when you get to know each other, and you’re not sure how to address the connection between you two.

However, if it seems like the relationship is getting pretty serious, but they still don’t know what you are and prefer to go with the flow, or they don’t share any meaningful information about them, don’t make plans together or don’t tell you anything about their past, it’s clear that something is not working the way it’s supposed to.

These things are the foundation of a healthy, long-lasting, and happy relationship, so if they give off the impression that you’re actually dating a ghost, the relationship is not getting anywhere.

…What do you think about all these? Do you agree with any of them? Let us know what you think by leaving a comment in the section down below!

…If you enjoyed reading this article and you want more insights about relationships, make sure to check this article out as well: 8 Signs Your Spouse Doesn’t Find You Attractive Anymore!