11. Myth: You’ll have perfect communication with your spouse.
“Even after years of marriage, your husband won’t automatically know what you’re thinking,” explains Dave Willis, author of The Seven Laws of Love. Communication might not always go as planned in a marriage, but you always find a way to make things work.
“Otherwise you’ll both end up feeling resentful, distant, or inadequate.”
Read also: 25 Reasons Divorcing In Your 40s Isn’t The End of The World.
12. Myth: You’ll have the same interests.
While it’s normal that you have some things in common with your spouse, being married doesn’t mean that you like the same exact things or have similar interests. Maybe you love going to the theatre each week or visit the museum when you have the chance, while your husband might prefer to watch a football game with his friends.
And it’s nothing wrong with that. In fact, it’s perfectly normal to have separate pastimes. However, make sure to respect the other person’s interests and hobbies without making fun or criticizing their choices.
Make sure to also check: 20 Things Experts Want You to Consider Before You Get Remarried.
