2. Myth: You’ll live happily ever after.
Even though most people wish to get married in their lifetime, the fantasy of ‘marital bliss’ is just not real. According to Bella DePaulo, PhD, and social psychologist, this fantasy is highly illogical and can bring a lot of unrealistic expectations to a marriage.
“Suppose you found, hypothetically, that people who become accountants are happier than those who become poets. Should all poets then set their imagination aside and set up shop as accountants—and expect to become happier as a result? It’s ridiculous,” she added.
You can’t be happy as a couple if you’re not happy on your own. But don’t get me wrong, that doesn’t mean you won’t like the new marital life experience, because having someone that loves you and you love them just as much, someone you can count on and is there for you through better and worse is priceless. However, do not expect your marriage to be perfect all the time, because it likely won’t.
Instead, focus on becoming a better partner and overcoming any obstacles that come your way. After all, you’re stronger together. You’re a team now.
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