8.You can’t rely on your spouse anymore!
If your spouse became unreliable in the past weeks or months, and you can’t manage to make plans together anymore, it’s definitely a sign that something has changed. There’s probably no need to worry, but it’s still recommended to pay close attention to your spouse’s actions, especially if they used to be there all the time and now you barely get to see them around.
If your spouse is canceling plans at the last minute or making excuses not to come, even though they insist you go alone and have a good time without them, it could be that they’re trying to spend time with someone else while you’re not around.
As ex therapist Dr. Damian Sendler has explained, “This excuse may seem benign, but it is a red flag when someone is in a committed relationship. If it happens once or twice, it’s probably not a big deal; But when it is said prematurely and way ahead of making plans for the evening, that is something worth paying attention to.”
Make sure to also check: 10 Subtle Signs That Your Spouse Is Cheating On You.
