10 Signs You’re Indifferent to Your Spouse

5. Exasperation

Displeasure and bitterness are one of the biggest factors when it comes to indifference. When you fail to admit that you feel hurt and disappointed, it adds up.

Those strong feelings stew beneath the surface until you can no longer keep them in and they turn into a huge storm of anger. This will make both of you want to keep each other at a distance and you might get more and more indifferent each day.

6. You Lie To Them 

People lie when they want to hide things from other people. If you’re constantly lying to your partner, it means that you no longer value their presence in your life. Lying can be seen as a conscious decision to hurt your significant other’s feelings, even though they might not be aware of it.

7. You Avoid Them 

If you find yourself staying busy at work or getting involved in several activities without your partner, just so you can avoid the awkwardness or the silence at home it’s a clear indicator that you’re indifferent towards your spouse.

8. You Feel Nothing At All

One of the most common red flags of indifference is emotional numbness. You don’t care about your partner’s actions, whether they’re good or bad. You don’t feel happy or sad.

You don’t even care if they did something that usually annoys you. As a matter of fact, you don’t feel anything. You’re not interested in the relationship, even if it keeps going or stops. You’re simply numb.

9. You Don’t Want To Be Intimate With Them 

When you’re indifferent toward your partner, you don’t care about intimacy anymore. There’s no more spark between you two and you don’t have a problem if you don’t have any fun time in the bedroom anymore.

That is because there is no desire that keeps you interested in each other. When things get cold and plain, you have to be completely honest with your partner and tell them what’s going on with you.

10. You Cancel The Plans You Have Together

People who are involved in a serious relationship make plans together and treat them like they’re appointments. That’s because they want to spend time with each other and they make it a priority.

If you forget about the plans you made with your partner or if you cancel them to do something else, it’s a warning sign that your indifference towards them grows stronger.

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