12. You have different ideas when it comes to money
Money can cause a lot of problems in a relationship, especially when couples have different ideas on how to handle them. In fact, many studies have shown that money can be a major source of stress in most adult relationships.
Therefore, it’s totally understandable why an extreme spender will never get along with an extreme saver, at least not in the long run.
According to Michela Hattabaugh, a Chicago-based matchmaker with Three Day Rule, “While a balance of these elements can be good, if someone enjoys spending money and the other aims to save money on everything, the relationship won’t work because it comes down to incompatible values and incompatible sources of joy.”
And even though you’re willing to compromise, chances are it’s still no going to work just because your different views will be too hard to ignore. As Hattabaugh, when it comes to money, it doesn’t even matter how they’re being spent, because one of you will always feel unhappy or unsatisfied.
Make sure to also check: 10 Signs Your Partner Is Not The One.
