The Words That Can Ruin Your Relationship, According to Experts

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Such a common word can cause very big problems, except when it is used to say ‘I love you’ to your one and only. Experts recommend trying to avoid saying things like ‘You make me very mad’ or ‘You’re doing this again’. See also: The Worst Thing You Could Possibly Say to Your Partner.

The word ‘you’ used in this case can make your partner feel like you’re blaming them for everything that’s not right in the relationship, Brown explained. According to Brown, “Framing your sentence this way also makes your partner feel attacked or judged.”

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